15 things that should not be given to newlyweds for a wedding

A wedding is a responsible event that has its own signs and rules, including those related to gifts. There are things that should not be given to newlyweds as a wedding gift. They will bring nothing but misfortune to the newly-made family. And even if you are not superstitious, it is worth knowing these signs. There will always be a kind soul at the event who will tell about the terrible meaning of the presented gift and thereby ruin the celebration.

Superstitions and weddings

Signs have existed since ancient times. Previously, people believed that any action entails consequences - punitive or rewarding. There are especially many signs regarding weddings. This day has always been considered special. The bride and groom are defenseless against the machinations of evil spirits. Therefore, they tried to protect them from bad influences with the help of good signs and the right gifts. It was believed that donated items symbolize married life in the future.

To prevent a bad gift from having an effect, the spouses must buy it. The price may be symbolic – 1–2 kopecks.

10 gifts you shouldn't give

Just because a purchase is expensive does not mean it will be highly appreciated. There is a list of things that are strictly prohibited as gifts for a wedding. Even if the donor and the newlyweds themselves do not believe in omens, there will be “well-wishers” who will tell stories about the bad influence of the gift. With their lamentations they can spoil the mood and bring disaster.After all, negative thoughts attract troubles much more powerfully than all the forbidden gifts combined.

For a wedding, the newlyweds cannot give:

1. Watch. According to legends, a clock given as a wedding gift counts down the time of marriage, and sometimes the life of one of the spouses. This bad omen applies to wristwatches, wall watches, and desk watches with alarm clocks.
2. Breakable items: dishes, sets, glass figurines, vases, etc. They symbolize the fragility of relationships. It is believed that if you give them, the marriage will be shaky and the couple will soon separate.
3. Mirror. It will provoke selfishness, misunderstanding and quarrels in the family. Spouses will admire themselves instead of caring for each other.
4. Natural pearls and handkerchiefs. Signs say that such items given as a wedding gift will bring tears to the spouses. And these are far from tears of joy. The bride can give a personalized handkerchief to the groom as a sign that she will be with him in joy and sorrow.
5. Cufflinks and tie clips. They give it as a wedding gift if they want the groom to become henpecked.
6. Sharp, piercing and cutting objects: forks, knives, combs, combs, razors, etc. They promise the newlyweds endless quarrels and deep emotional wounds from living together.

Candles. Everyone knows that any candle is destined to burn out and go out. For marriage, it symbolizes exactly the same thing - the feelings of the young are not eternal and will soon fade away.
Antique and used items. According to popular beliefs, they will bring grief to the newly-made family. In addition, any objects accumulate the energy of their owners. If the previous owner was unhappy, then such a thing will no longer bring joy and happiness to anyone.
Kettle. Predicts frequent scandals for the bride and groom.Neither a whistling kettle nor an electric kettle is given as a gift for a wedding.
Flower in a pot and roses with thorns. Even large, beautiful and happiness-bringing indoor plants are not welcome as wedding gifts. According to signs, they promise a couple childlessness and spoil their health. The thorns on roses must be cut off, otherwise the newlywed will face injuries and “pricks of fate.”

Don't be upset if you have already purchased any item from the list. You can save it and give it as a gift for your wedding anniversary. On this day, on the contrary, many of the above ideas will be welcome and appropriate.

Money is a win-win option for a wedding gift. The newlyweds themselves will be able to choose what they need. And if it is not customary in the family to give banknotes, you can put a certificate for the purchase of furniture, household appliances or other goods in the envelope.

Gifts and etiquette

Following the rules of etiquette allows you to avoid awkward situations. What seems funny and amusing to some often causes negative emotions to others. Some gifts, although not associated with omens, are completely inappropriate at a wedding.

So, what should not be given to newlyweds:

Things for the baby. Cute little onesies can put a couple in an awkward position. Perhaps the young woman is already pregnant and wants to hide it from a wide circle of friends and acquaintances. Besides, such things are not bought in advance.
Interior items and dishes. The desire to equip a family nest for young people is commendable, but a problem may arise with a divergence of tastes.
Outdated technology. In an attempt to save money, inexpensive equipment is sometimes purchased as a wedding gift. It’s good if newly-made spouses don’t chase functionality. But more often such devices remain gathering dust on the shelf.The majority still wants to use modern devices.
Banal souvenirs: boxes, framed photos, piggy banks, aroma lamps, etc. Such gifts are still somehow suitable for February 14 and March 8, but at a wedding they are considered inappropriate and vulgar. Remember your emotions when you receive a similar surprise. They are unlikely to be happy.
Personal items. Gifts that are intended for one person may hurt the feelings of your other half. Items for personal use are either given for a wedding in pairs or not given at all.

Keep the receipt for your purchase. If the newlyweds do not like the gift, they can exchange it for another in the store. The check will also come in handy if the item breaks prematurely.

Choosing a wedding gift is undoubtedly a responsible and important moment. However, you should not get hung up on prejudices. First of all, you need to take into account the interests, hobbies and temperament of young people. Sometimes extraordinary gifts turn out to be much nicer than banal things “without a soul.” Choose a gift with sincere attention. This will be the key to the hearts of the heroes of the occasion.